So why is it that people ask you for advice and then do the complete opposite of what you advised? It's like why even ask? My motto is: you can't tell grown people what to do. In love, in life, in general. You cannot make a person change and you cannot make a person love you if they don't want to. What is truly in a person's heart will show in their actions, ALL THE TIME. GUARANTEED. I usually don't make guarantees in writing...or life in general, but this is one thing that I feel very strongly about. All that a person has is his word and his action and the old cliche says "actions speak louder than words." How true is that? What do you think?
Never enter a relationship thinking that you have the power to make someone conform to your every desire and always look for the subtly obvious clues to who a person really is... trust me, if you can get past the butterflies, a person's true identity--and intentions--lie just beneath the surface.
Remember, a grown person does not change over night, if at all...if (s)he does it once, (s)he will do it again and forgiveness does not mean you have to stay!
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